Comments by parents
Only people that have heard Marcsi know the added value of what she says and the way she says it. Therefore I would write out prescriptions for the opportunity to use the BMM and would distribute them! When I became familiar with Marcsi’s method I forgot about fear. Of course, this doesn’t mean I’ve got rid of a healthy amount of everyday worries but I’ve forgotten forever my fear of the future and the unknown!
The realisation that I should give children a chance so they could do their job by themselves just gave me the key to unlock my shackles!
I didn’t always want something different. I’ve taken a long and bumpy road and now I do want something different. I can stop the quest as I’ve found it!
Csilla Mákosné Fehérvári - Eger
A few years ago I heard about this method and I knew right away it was a revolutionary idea for both healthy and SEN children. Our small family boasts of Kamilla, a 7-year-old Down syndrome girl.
A few years ago I heard about this method and I knew right away it was a revolutionary idea for both healthy and SEN children. Our small family boasts of Kamilla, a 7-year-old Down syndrome girl.
It is highly spectacular, colourful, logical, impressive, extremely developing and simply great!
I can only recommend it to everybody!
Zsuzsanna Balla - Budapest
As a parent I try to find the balance in educating my children. I want to give them room to fulfil their dreams and to develop freely at their own pace but I also want to provide a struc-tured background where they can find security and system. This is often not easy to do. The method of Mária Béres offers precisely this kind of help to all parents and teachers. It helps you learn to trust children. It has proved that if children are given sufficient room and the right devices, they will be able to absorb any knowledge through their instinctive curiosity while discovering their own abilities. This method reflects a harmony of freedom and a well-built system of rules which provides safety. I’m amazed by Mária’s intuitive and creative per-sonality. She took simple solutions to create a rich set of devices that children can discover freely without any control and by which they enrich their knowledge about themselves and their environment. Now I have been encouraged to trust myself and my attitude and have learnt that simple and little ideas and games can make playtime with our children so rich and entertaining.
Ágnes Bartus - Eger
For years I worked as a remedial education assistant at a special school for children with mild intellectual disabilities. That was my wish. Unfortunately, I gathered too many sad and negative experiences and lost my faith in special education... Then I also became affected as a parent. I am the mother of a 6 year-old Down syndrome boy. As such I met Marcsi and became familiar with her work. As soon as the first lecture, I felt my faith was coming back, that it was definitely possible to teach such children a lot of things, that reading and writing were not beyond them and that a little help could give them wings. I saw how calm the children in her group were and enjoyed their tasks rather than struggling, as opposed to what I had seen for years. This is a fantastically elaborated method!! I would be really happy if it became better known and an increasing number of teachers and remedial teachers applied the BMM Method! There’s nothing to wait for as time unfortunately flies
Timea Szőke - Veszprém
Perhaps I was among the first people to listen to her public lecture. I really like her devices and methods. Although I have a grown-up DS child, I tried to adopt some ideas with minor tricks. I am happy to report that recognising some new words and letters (non-speaking DS child) was a great source of joy. Her method is excellent as my child is really learning play-fully!
Etelka Baljerné - Újbarok
It was fantastic! Thank you very much! I’m still looking for the right words. By way of ex-ception, I don’t want to praise the method from children’s perspective. There’s no doubt about the long list of fascinating results. But if you accept this attitude, you will be able to mobilise long forgotten everyday energies. And then a miracle happens as someone before our accompanying sight will first have the experience of “I’ve got it”, “I know” “That’s it”. Nothing’s more beautiful than that. It’s worthwhile.
Dr. Szilvia Moldován, teacher and parent
Opinions by college students
It’s hard to sum up how I really felt as it was an elusive thing that you seldom feel. I thought I would take yet another boring compulsory course for my credits because I had previously no idea what the whole thing (BMM) was about. I was pleasantly surprised. The lecturer gave the impression of a kind and informal person but she also had something authoritative about her to suggest that she knew something. Her ways of organising her lectures completely amazed us in many ways. I had a great time and I think she wanted to pass on her knowledge, convic-tion, experiences and confidence in future remedial teachers in the most effective way: by the force of experience. The devices, videos and stories were impressive. The whole course greatly inspired the rest of my studies and chosen vocation. I think it takes this kind of lecturer to fill the profession with the right people! My thanks and gratitude go out to you!
Anikó Tóth - Szeged
The course was real fun as Marcsi did her best to pass on theoretical knowledge but also to share with us the experiences she had accumulated through the years. She stressed that it often took a long process to come up with reform ideas and methods that could help us achieve success with children in remedial education. We must be steadfast, creative and patient but also bear in mind individual interests and needs.
During my remedial education studies, this was one of the most pragmatic and lifelike courses that I had the privilege to attend.
Annamária Balogh
I came out of class like a small child who saw a miracle. The things we saw filled me with an incredibly good feeling. The many devices and pictures and my insight in the everyday of life of the kids in the videos slightly changed my views. This was the moment when I thought that despite a lot of dry course material there was a reason for working really hard and accom-plishing our goals in this vocation. Thank you for the many experiences and colours.
Rebeka Ecser
I’m still under the influence of today’s consultation. I think I’ve got an insight in yet another window where I still need to discover a lot of things. I’m very happy that some of our courses give me a kind of impetus and creativity that don’t die away by the time I get home. Now my mind is filled with lots of ideas and if I carry out just some of them it may bring about a lot of change in my work.
Petra Monek
The room was filled with people for the consultation session. The atmosphere was so differ-ent. I thought ‘Here we go’ as we discussed, argued, shared, you asked and accepted, we ac-cepted... It gives us hope. Perhaps it is possible to achieve differently, without papers or re-ports that children should get along rather than we should achieve the statistics as a priority.
Zsuzsa Gera
We heard lots of great ideas and I’m especially happy you shared your experiences with us. The theoretical part is also very important but these experiences are indispensable. The devices and method that you developed are really remarkable. It would be great if many more people thought like that and so everybody could make progress with such a fine tuned method at their own pace rather than continuous measuring.
Lastly, I want to thank you for a great course and can honestly recommend everybody to meet you and know your method.
Renáta Huszta